Usher Shares Heartbreaking Revelation: He Proposed to TLC's Chilli and Their Breakup 'Devastated Me': 'Truly Cared for Her' (Exclusive)

Usher regrets his split with Chilli, confessing, "I really did love that girl."

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Despite proposing, Chilli turned down Usher's offer of marriage, shattering his heart.

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Their relationship faced challenges due to Chilli's specific rules, causing a painful breakup.

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Usher's seductive persona wasn't just for show; he charmed older women from a young age.

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He recalls admiring Chilli's beauty since childhood, dreaming of meeting her one day.

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Their breakup left Usher distrustful of women, hesitant to open up emotionally.

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Chilli felt Usher had to maintain a certain image with her, affecting their real-life connection.

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Despite the split, they remained on-and-off for years, reconnecting between other relationships.

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Both have moved on; Chilli is with Matthew Lawrence, while Usher recently wed Jenn Goicoechea.

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