45-Year-Old Divorcee's  Loves Threesomes &  Thanks to a Daring App

At 45, a recent divorcee explores newfound passions in threesomes and same-sex attractions post-marriage.

In August 2022, after 17 long years, a marriage ends, leading to a journey of self-discovery and freedom.

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The first step into dating anew: experimenting with Tinder, embracing the excitement of dating and casual flings.

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Challenges of modern dating: the frustration with shallow interactions, sexting, and the ghosting culture.

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A chance meeting with a vibrant young woman in London opens the door to the world of Feeld and its possibilities.

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Feeld, unlike traditional dating apps, offers a diverse range of identities and sexual preferences to explore.

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Embracing sexual openness, Feeld challenges societal norms and taboos around sex and kinks.

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Adapting to the unique anonymity of Feeld, where users often share body photos and initials instead of full identities.

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The contrast in dating experiences: Feeld's focus on specific kinks versus the general approach of other apps.

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Post-divorce life transformation: embracing new sexual experiences and identities through the world of Feeld.

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